|The Prophet said, "Then I saw the Fire - and I have never seen anything more hideous than what I saw today - and I saw that most of its people were women."|
|They said, "Why, Messenger of Allah?"|
|He replied, "Because of their ungratefulness (kufr),"|
|Someone said, "Are they ungrateful to Allah?"|
|He said, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and they are ungrateful for good behaviour towards them. Even if you were to behave well towards one of them for a whole lifetime and then she were to see you do something (that she did not like) she would say that she had never seen anything good from you."|
I’m sorry if I say this: why.
Because this already have been so long inside my head.
The reason should not be your internal ‘weak’.
You’re not pity at all if you have no friends. Especially girls when you’re a male.
You’ll not be lifeless if you don’t have girls as friends to company you to understand you and your heart.
Loneliness is a good thing. If you think you’re a Muslim.
Loneliness means you have no friends, you’re a stranger to them.
It’s like your religion.
You’re a stranger = give glad tidings to you.
“Islam began as something strange and will revert to being strange as it began, so give glad tidings to the strangers.”
Same to the girls too, if you don’t have many friends. you shouldn’t be sad. Same as I am though. Im a loner. I don’t think sadness can give you happy.— this time are my words.
“Each of you is a shepherd and each of you shall be asked about his flock.” - Bukhari and Muslim
Narrated Abu Ayyub (RA), he (RA) told of hearing Allah’s Messenger (SAWW) say:
“If anyone separates a mother from her child, Allah (SWT) will separate him from his friends on the Day of Resurrection.” - Tirmidhi
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Abu Hurairah (RA) narrated that a man said to the Prophet (SAWW), “Advise me.” He (SAWW) said: “Do not get angry.” The man repeated his request several times, and he (SAWW) said, “Do not get angry.” - Al-Bukhari, Al-Sahih (6116)
Al-Khattaabi said: The meaning of the phrase ‘Do not get…
عن أبي هريرة - رضي الله عنه - قال : قال النبي - صلى الله عليه وسلم - : يقول الله تعالى : ( أنا عند ظن عبدي بي ، وأنا معه إذا ذكرني ، فإن ذكرني في نفسه ذكرته في نفسي ، وإن ذكرني في ملإ ذكرته في ملإ خير منهم ، وإن تقرب إلي بشبر تقربت إليه ذراعا ، وإن تقرب إلي ذراعا تقربت إليه باعا ، وإن أتاني يمشي أتيته هرولة)
رواه البخاري و مسلم
Rasulullah S.A.W. on the authority of Abu Hurayrah [Bukhari, Muslim]
“When Allah wills good for a servant of His, He expedites his punishment in this life; and when He wills retribution for a servant of His, He holds his sins for Him to judge him by them on the Day of Resurrection.”
— The Prophet (sallAllahu ‘alayhi wa sallam)— [As narrated by Anas (radhiAllahu ‘anhul in At-Tirmidhi] (via pearlsofislam)
“The affair of the believer is amazing! The whole of his life is beneficial, and that is only in the case of the believer. When good times come to him, he is thankful and it is good for him, and when bad times befall him, he is patient and it is also good for him.” [Muslim]
-Prophet Muhammad, salla Allahu alayahi wasalam
“The Strong one is not the one who overcomes the people by his strength, but the strong one is one who controls himself while in anger.” - Prophet Muhammed (Peace Be Upon Him)
“The benefits of sitting in a gathering of Dhikr are such that anyone who sits with them, for whatever reason will also have his sins forgiven”